Biblical Standards For A Godly Marriage

About this book

Marriage is under attack like never before — but it was never meant to be a burden. In Biblical Standards for a Godly Marriage, Pastor Tope AbimbolaOluwa returns to Scripture to lay out God's original design for the marital covenant, offering both a corrective to modern distortions and a practical roadmap for couples who want their homes to thrive. Beginning with a clear picture of what marriage is — and just as importantly, what it was never designed to be — this book walks readers through the everyday realities that make or break a home: unresolved differences, money conflicts, external pressures from family and friends, and the quiet erosion caused by poor communication. From there, it moves into the heart of biblical marriage: mutual submission, the God-given roles of husband and wife, the sacred "codes" that protect intimacy from outside intrusion, and practical steps for resolving conflict before it takes root. Drawing on passages from Genesis, Ephesians, Proverbs, and more, the author unpacks the roles of the husband as protector, provider, and pathfinder, and the wife as a helpmeet — a partner, companion, and counterpart uniquely equipped to strengthen her home. Later chapters address how to choose a spouse wisely, the place of parental consent, and the pastoral role in guiding couples toward a Christ-centered union. Whether you're preparing for marriage, newly wed, or years into your journey together, this book offers grounded, faith-based guidance for building — and defending — a marriage that reflects God's design and stands the test of time. About the Author: Tope AbimbolaOluwa leads Ever Growing Impact Ministries at City On The Hill Church, where teaching on marriage and family has been a central part of the ministry's work.